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Get Back Together With Your Ex By Becoming Less Attainable And More Of A Challenge To Her
You were a challenge for her. You had a superior value and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm about to make a wild guess here, but could it be that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that at this time, you are zero challenge for her? And that she knows if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?
I am going to be crude here, but as you know, to become a challenge once again you need to demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality has no control over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think about what it's like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other sexual options.
She won't respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not directly interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Make sure you stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Do not be "friends" with her, because that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while giving her a handy excuse to stay broken up. (She reasons that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging any guilt she may feel.)
On the other hand, make sure to keep her locked in with your stuff. Probably lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She may request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it back.
The very best response to this is "No, not yet. The reason is because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you need to fully acknowledge -- and embrace -- the fact that you're an independent man now. Take what occurred with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a golden opportunity to revolutionize your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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